Actually, I did not use lingerie but the "lack" of lingerie to leave my husband speechless.  We had been married for about 3 years and had been having lots of problems.  We were separated and talking of divorce when I asked him out to dinner to a very nice restaurant.

 

I asked him to come dressed in his Sunday best and I wore a backless dress with a VERY low cleavage which he had never seen.  I made reservations for us at a chic restaurant which we really could not afford but I said what the "HEY!"  We weren't going to make it a habit of sure luxuries and I thought we both deserved the finest.

 

When we were seated and part way through the entrée, I leaned over where he could see clear down of the floor in the front of my dress to make sure that he realized that I did not have on a bra and I whispered into his ear that not only did I not have on a bra, I also did not have on panties or stockings.

 

His beautiful blue eyes got as big as saucers and he broke out into a gorgeous smile.  Throughout the entire meal he kept his eyes on only me and made me feel so sexy that we were both eager to get home.  I insisted that we stay for the main course of steak and lobster and even ordered dessert.

 

Needless to say, we did not have a harsh word about anything that night and it was heavenly.  We took advantage of that night and vowed that we would both make more effort in our marriage.  We were married nearly 22 years and have a daughter and son.

 

My husband died unexpectedly 4 years ago and I still tear up every time I think of that night.  I miss him so very much.